The L2M Marriage Culture Assessment™

Attendance Measures Activity

Connection Measures Impact

The L2M Marriage Culture Assessment helps churches see what they’ve never measured before. Not attendance, not participation, but the depth of intentional connection shaping the soul of every marriage and the strength of the entire church.

The L2M Assessment helps leadership teams uncover:

  • The unseen factors shaping marital and ministry health
  • Gaps between program participation and discipleship rhythms
  • Opportunities to build sustainable marriage ministry that grows beyond events

THE PROBLEM MOST PASTORS FEEL BUT CAN’T SEE

You Cannot Disciple What You Cannot Diagnose

Married couples attend faithfully. They love God. They serve.
And yet many are quietly suffering from disconnect at home.

That hidden disconnect becomes the silent drain pastors carry:

  • Marriage crises that appear suddenly but were building quietly

  • Leadership couples who serve while carrying unspoken strain

  • Volunteers who burn out because their home life is unstable

  • Families drifting before anyone realizes what’s happening

  • Emotional pressure on pastors that compounds year after year

The real cost of marital disconnect is pastoral drain.

Most pastors are exhausted not because they lack calling, but because they lack clarity.

L2M changes that.

L2M: The Missing Metric of the Modern Church

What we know biblically must be walked out relationally.

Most churches measure what’s easy to count, participation, not transformation.

Behind every healthy church is a culture of connection where couples are  discipled, families are strengthened, and leaders are aligned around relational intelligence.

The L2M Assessment equips pastors to see beyond attendance and activity into the deeper reality shaping discipleship outcomes.

Because discipleship that isn’t relational isn’t transformational.

L2M: The Missing Metric of the Modern Church

What we know biblically must be walked out relationally.

Most churches measure what’s easy to count, participation, not transformation.

Behind every healthy church is a culture of connection where couples are  discipled, families are strengthened, and leaders are aligned around relational intelligence.

The L2M Assessment equips pastors to see beyond attendance and activity into the deeper reality shaping discipleship outcomes.

Because discipleship that isn’t relational isn’t transformational.

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